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It’s certainly a sentiment worth challenging, but it’s likely to be a waste of your time and energy to get into a discussion about body politics with a near-stranger online.
If this had come from a friend or an acquaintance or even from a first date IRL, that might be an ideal springboard for you to challenge the notion that “curvy” is somehow the opposite of “beautiful,” but as it is, I think you should go with your first impulse and move on to someone else.
You certainly can send that message if you like—the script you suggested is perfectly polite—but you’re under no obligation to correct the views of every misguided guy on Ok Cupid.
If you did, you’d have no time to use it for dating.
It’s only June, we’re nowhere near the worst of the summer weather. I’ve never felt more like my own father in my life but: Does your roommate think that you are made of money?