() And it’s hard to un-wire 18 years of being shown how to talk and listen to others in family situations.
Too many marriages start (and end) with vague and un-identified core values. Or are you constantly trying to hide who you are because they want you to be someone you’re not?
Are you fitting and conforming to some abstract idea of what you think they want?
Letting physical intimacy run wild and free typically means the emotional, spiritual, and personality attraction is lagging behind. Sex while dating can create many awful shades of gray, when what your relationship needs is some honest black and white.
One of the greatest causes for conflict in marriage are contradicting core values.
Thus my career path has been anything but straight-forward, which could drive any sane person crazy.