You can make it stressful for you, and you can make her close up, simply by approaching the whole thing with the wrong mindset.
But if you approach it with the aim of enjoying the experience and challenge, then you will lighten the scenario, soften her response and encourage a positive result. Look into her eyes but don’t stare or make her feel uncomfortable.
Young adults use the medium of the text message much more than any other new media to transmit messages of a sexual nature.
As a result of sexting being a relatively recent practice, ethics are still being established by both those who engage in it and those who create legislation based on this concept.
Remember that your aim is to try and make her feel as comfortable as possible so that she will relax and open up.
The simplest way to do this is to smile and be genuine.
A golf ball has dimples on its surface to increase the efficiency of airflow over it and let it fly further.