They may not be the best Tinder lines she’s ever seen, but you’re not one of those guys who falls back on “Hey! Here’s your problem – why would she respond to your “pretty good” message, when she’s got dozens of other men with better material like this clamoring for her attention: Attractive women can afford to be picky – they’re weeding through hundreds of messages from guys just like you.
So if you don’t create something that immediately snags her attention and compels her to respond, she won’t.
Hinge says men are 98% more likely than women to respond to assertive, invitational messages, so ask him to get drinks or grab dinner.
Women, on the other hand, are 40% more likely to respond to food-related opening lines.
"Every day, the Hinge team is asked if we know the secret to starting a great conversation that will actually lead somewhere," Karen Fein, Hinge's vice president of marketing, says. Since it's our mission to help users move beyond the swipe, to connect over something interesting and to ultimately meet up — we decided to find out." Here are some of Hinge's findings.