However, these 5 Reasons Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex will help you understand and show you what to do. When you’re out, direct your eyes to her rather than other places.
While we feel more connected to our wives by having sex, our wives need to connect first. Give her a look that communicates, in a room full of people, she’s the only one you want to talk to.
You are still ready to go every night, but she’s not. You feel like you rarely have sex anymore, and when you do it feels like she’s doing you a favor. Find out how she is feeling, her insecurities, fears, and struggles. Even when she returns to her pre-kid body, I guarantee she’s still comparing–desperate for affirmation. Tell her she’s sexy and why—particularly when she makes a negative comment about herself.
After marriage, and particularly after having kids, things have a way of changing. She knows it and she probably thinks about it all the time, constantly comparing herself to other women. She needs to feel your passion for her in your words, body language, and eyes.
Do we really deserve the scarlet letter B ("bigot") now just for believing that the Bible teaches what's best for families and for society?