All you have to do is look back at your past relationships and you will find that the one similarity they all have is that they were doomed from the start. Either you have never been in a committed relationship before, or have not been in one for a very long time.
Even if you are currently in one, you can truthfully and unflinchingly say, “He/she is not the one.
However, if the thought of someone playing a role in your life’s decision making processes terrifies you, then you have a problem.
At the end of the day, it all comes down to you not wanting to make sacrifices to please someone else.
For example, you may have been deeply in love with someone and even went so far as to believe that that person was the one.