At the same time, do not throw yourselves back into the thick of the relationship until the hard personal work has been done by both of you.You do not want to risk the fragile nature of by your relationship by overwhelming each other with untransformed issues.Commit to the relationship It’s very hard to work on a relationship when either of you has one foot out the door.
Go here to learn about how you can try coaching in a 30-minute sample Get Clarity Coaching Session. Face your fears about the relationship In facing your fears, you will confront those worst possible scenarios that make you want to run while you are trying to put your relationship back together. The more you take care of yourself, the more resilience you will bring to your relationship situation, and the more patient you will be during the getting back together process. Do your personal work Delve into your personality and your issues.
It will help you to remember that your fears are only possibilities, not certainties. Devise a strategy of what you will do if your greatest fears come true Put the strategy down on paper and brainstorm or research real-world solutions and steps to take in case your relationship does not work out as planned. Look at what brought you to the point of breakup or separation in your relationship.
To get back together and stay together you two must commit to the relationship and to each other deeply.
You both must commit to try and try again to make your relationship work.
They would much rather find a way to get back together and stay together.