Really before even thinking about what to text a girl, timing is perhaps the most import part of any good text game.
Timing is the space in between texts that you and she take to reply back to each other’s messages.
You see it everywhere, from texting and driving to people out on dates, where one person is texting while the other is looking around, bored to death.
(The same thing could be said for using “haha” as this is interchangeable with “lol.”) To lighten the mood again for something that seems serious, you might say to a woman, “Yeah, I just got home from the gym.
They had to kick me out because I started lifting up the side of the building lol.” Just saying something ridiculous like this could get a laugh out of her, and the placement of that “lol” at the end of the sentence clearly tells her you’re joking around as opposed to just being weird.
At the same time, though, you’re making a bit of a joke about her not being around, so it’s a good way to ask something semi-seriously while at the same time coming across as playful. Using “lol” is a similar thing I like to do and recommend.
It’s basically the same idea as the smiley face and can also be used to lighten the mood.
Then I’d check that the phone wasn’t on silent and that the vibrator was on so that I’d know for sure when I did get that text back.