Sometimes it takes me longer and I get more invested in the relationship to the point it really hurts me to lose a "friend" who is not good for me.
After all, you wouldn’t be broadcasting that you were under treatment for any other disease to everyone you meet, so why this?
I no longer cast judgement and act out on it if things dont go my way.
If you are playing honestly then things should work out.
They put up one hell of a good front but over time the cracks in the false face begin to show.
Most of the time, you're right about a person's true colors coming out within the first month.