Joe Fanelli says, “Initially, it’s about an attraction to someone.
Then, for an interest in dating them, there has to be that desire to make a connection.” Her Campus is here to help you make that connection.
According to Fanelli, similarity to a person is another important factor in attraction. It’s that butterflies-in-the-stomach feeling you get when, the more you talk with someone, the more you find out you have in common.
“These matches may be conscious, for example two athletes, or people with similar extracurricular interests, or unconscious, like finding out you enjoy the same music,” Fanelli says.
People also, “lean toward whatever – or whomever – they find most important at the time,” according to Love Signals.