Though his mouth was on fire, Frind calmly planted a kiss on Kanciar's lips and feigned ignorance as she went scrambling for water.
Kanciar, a freelance Web designer who also helps out around Plenty of Fish, is a lanky blonde with an easy smile and a hearty laugh, which she often uses to try to get Frind to open up.
Five years later, he is running one of the largest websites on the planet and paying himself more than $5 million a year.
Frind, 30, doesn't seem like the sort of fellow who would run a market-leading anything.
He seems perpetually lost in thought, constantly thinking about and studying the world around him.